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7 Marks of a Wise Person

• July 6th, 2011

This is a list I've referred to frequently during my current series through Proverbs. The list comes from my friend Mark Matlock, founder and President of Wisdomworks ministries, and speaker at what I believe are the best weekend youth conferences in America: "Planet Wisdom".

Teaching students to become men and women of wisdom has always been Mark's passion, and I'm grateful to him for his contribution to the lives of my students over the years, and personally for the way he has engaged my own teenager.

Anyhooooo, Mark compiled this list years ago as he read through the book of Proverbs over and over. He would read a passage, write the quality it reflected on an index card, and put the card in a stack. He ended up with seven stacks, which led him to these seven qualities. Thanks for your work on this, Mark!! It's a really helpful framework for exploring the book of Proverbs.

The Seven Marks of a Wise Person: 1. Trusts God 2. Walks In Healthy Relationships 3. Seeks Good Counsel 4. Speaks Carefully 5. Exercises Self Control 6. Keeps Balance 7. Manages Resources

This past Sunday I also described the difference between sincere compliment and vain flattery. Here's that statement: "Compliment or praise is given sincerely for the encouragement of the recipient. It is selfless and honest. Flattery is intended to benefit the giver at the expense of the recipient. It is a form of manipulation."


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The National Anthem: To Sing or not to Sing?

• July 5th, 2011

Recently, Goshen College made news over their decision to avoid singing the national anthem before athletic events as an expression of the Mennonite college's convictions regarding the separation of Church and State and Pacifism. Below is a post written by Goshen Alum and Mennonite Pastor Mark Schloneger. My response follows Mark's post...

Mark's post: "I choose to belong to a strange tribe. Goshen College, my alma mater, made national news last month when its board of directors decided that the “Star Spangled Banner” would not be played before athletic events. As could be expected, the decision was met with confusion and contempt. Wasn’t this just another example of our traditional values being trampled by the unrelenting march of political correctness? What sort of ingrates object to our nation’s anthem, anyway? Fluffy-headed campus philosophers? Lazy latte-sipping liberals? The decision not to play the national anthem reversed last year’s decision to play it for the first time in Goshen College’s 116-year history. That, too, caught the media’s attention. It also caused widespread concern and confusion among the college’s students, professors, alumni, supporters and, yes, donors - many of whom felt like playing the anthem compromised the college’s Christian values.

Goshen is a small school in northern Indiana that's owned and operated as a ministry of Mennonite Church USA. I am a Goshen graduate, a longtime member of the Mennonite Church and the pastor of a Mennonite congregation. Mennonites live in countries all over the world. Though we speak many languages, have different ethnic origins, and express our faith in diverse ways, we all claim the Anabaptists in 16th century Europe as our spiritual ancestors. The Anabaptists agreed with most of the ideas of the Protestant Reformation but felt that reformers like Martin Luther and John Calvin didn't go far enough. Anabaptists rejected the practice of infant baptism, for instance, believing that water baptism should be reserved for believers who confess a faith in Jesus. Because they understood the exercise of state power to be inconsistent with the church’s identity and mission, Anabaptists also advocated for the strict separation of church and state. This then-radical stance was prompted by both theology and necessity: Anabaptists had the distinct notoriety of being tortured and killed by both Catholics and Protestants wielding the power of the state against them. Instead of compromising their core convictions about what it means to follow Jesus, thousands of Anabaptist men and women adhered to their freedom of conscience even as they were mocked by neighbors, burned at stakes and drowned in rivers. Although there certainly are diverse viewpoints among individual Mennonites today, we continue to advocate for the strict separation of church and state. Most Mennonite churches do not have flags inside them, and many Mennonites are uncomfortable with the ritual embedded in the singing of the national anthem. That’s because we recognize only one Christian nation, the church, the holy nation that is bound together by a living faith in Jesus rather than by man-made, blood-soaked borders. To Mennonites, a living faith in Jesus means faithfully living the way of Jesus. Jesus called his disciples to love their enemies and he loved his enemies all the way to the cross and beyond. Following Jesus and the martyrs before us, we testify with our lives that freedom is not a right that is granted or defended with rockets’ red glare and bombs bursting in air. True freedom is given by God, and it is indeed not free. It comes with a cost, and it looks like a cross. It’s a strange tribe to which I belong, and sometimes it’s hard to be strange. We struggle to be inclusive in our welcome yet passionate in our identity. Our desire for acceptance, for approval, is strong, and we don’t always live up to the convictions that we set before us. We must repent of that, for the world cannot know of its brokenness and hopelessness without a people who show a holistic way of life. The world cannot know that there is an alternative to violence and war without a people of peace making peace. The world cannot know that the weak and the vulnerable are cared for by God without a people practicing an economy centered on sharing and mutual aid. The world cannot know the unsurpassable worth of human life without a people who consistently work to protect it - in the fetus, in the convict, in the immigrant, in the soldier, and in the enemy. These convictions do not reflect ingratitude or hatred for our country. Rather, they reflect a deep love for the church and a passionate desire for the church to be the church. Mennonite beliefs and practices seem bizarre to some and offensive to others. But it’s life in this strange tribe that keeps me faithful to what I believe. I love my country, but I sing my loyalty and pledge my allegiance to Jesus alone."

My Response: It is a blessing for our Mennonite friends to have the freedom to worship and express their perspective. However, I'm puzzled at how singing the national anthem, or paying respect to the men and women who defend our freedom at a non-church athletic event would in some way violate a Mennonite's convictions. In a worship context, I agree wholeheartedly with Mark, but we're talking about ballgames and track events... Quite a stretch to me. While I believe strongly in the separation of Church and State, I also understand that the freedom we enjoy in this nation didn't come cheap. I think that paying respect to those who defended our freedom to enjoy a good ballgame on Saturday, and worship freely on Sunday the One who set us free from sin can be done without violating convictions or offending our countrymen. Then again, I'm free to be wrong, right?

What say you, O wise readers?


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When It Looks Like I Have Failed

• June 21st, 2011

This is a prayer written by leadership guru / former pastor Dr. John C. Maxwell. I used it in my message this past Sunday on "Taking Charge". The message examined four attitudes necessary in order to take charge of our lives. This prayer was read as part of the first point which addressed our need to take chances in order to take charge. Part of taking chances involves overcoming an unhealthy fear of failure. I quoted Maxwell by saying "Failure is not fatal, only failure to get back up is", then I read this prayer. I'm framing it and putting it in my office! I hope it encourages you today!

When It Looks Like I Have Failed - Dr. John C. Maxwell

Lord, are You trying to tell me something? For… Failure does not mean I’m a failure; It does mean I have not yet succeeded. Failure does not mean I have accomplished nothing; It does mean I have learned something. Failure does not mean I have been a fool; It does mean I had enough faith to experiment. Failure does not mean I’ve been disgraced; It does mean I dared to try. Failure does not mean I don’t have it; It does mean I have to do something in a different way. Failure does not mean I am inferior; It does mean I am not perfect. Failure does not mean I’ve wasted my life; It does mean I have an excuse to start over again. Failure does not mean I should give up; It does mean I must try harder. Failure does not mean I’ll never make it; It does mean I need more patience. Failure does not mean You have abandoned me; It does mean You must have a better idea. Amen.


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American Idols: My Way

• June 14th, 2011

Americans are in love with themselves. We’ll do anything to be comfortable, to be noticed, to get ahead, as long as it puts the attention on me, myself, and I. This message wraps up our series called “American Idols”, by talking about what I believe is the source for the other three idols we’ve discussed over the last few weeks. Think about it… • Materialism is about getting the stuff that will set me apart. • Pleasure about doing what will make me feel good. • Success is about doing what I want to do to get ahead in life. We’ve learned these idols can’t deliver what they promise. They are man-made. "Of what value is an idol, since a man has carved it? Or an image that teaches lies? For he who makes it trusts in his own creation; he makes idols that cannot speak.19 Woe to him who says to wood, 'Come to life!' Or to lifeless stone, 'Wake up!' Can it give guidance? It is covered with gold and silver; there is no breath in it.” – Habakkuk 2:18-19 The idol of individualism is no different. Living “my way” makes for a great song, but it falls short of the life God has called us to live.

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American Idols: Champion of the World

• June 14th, 2011

It’s no secret that Americans like to win. We are absolutely committed to success. Being #1 at whatever it is we do is the primary form of achievement we recognize. In the Olympics, we prefer gold to silver every time. Second and third place finishers vanish from our memory the moment a contest is over. We throw out quotes such as “If you’re not the lead dog, the view never changes.” and “Second place is another way of saying 1st loser.” Recently, actor Charlie Sheen has even capitalized on the word “winning” to describe how he measures and defines success. We love success stories, we love winners, and we love to be the champions of the world. But when does competition become a compulsion? When does the striving for success become an unhealthy pursuit? At what point does the will to win become an object of worship? The writer of Ecclesiastes was a winner in every possible category under the sun. And yet, he saw that to worship the win can cause even champions of the world to lose what really counts.

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American Idols: I Can’t Get No…Satisfaction

• June 14th, 2011

This series examines four attitudes prevalent in American culture. Each will be viewed in light of passages from the book of Ecclesiastes.

This messages centers on the pursuit of pleasure.

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American Idols: Material World

• June 14th, 2011

This series examines four attitudes prevalent in American culture. Each will be viewed in light of passages from the book of Ecclesiastes.

The opening message in this series centers on materialism.

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Surprised by Hope: Loss and Life

• June 13th, 2011

I never cease to be amazed at this time of the year. It’s hard to look at the brilliant colors and think that just a month ago the trees were barren and snow covered the ground. Growing up in Florida, I didn’t experience much seasonal change. Our weather patterns were pretty simple…heat, humidity and an occasional cold front. So to watch a dogwood tree go from something that appears dead, to a full array of bloom just fascinates me. Apparent death gives way to abundant life. In C.S. Lewis’ classic book, The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, there is a flood of despair as the mighty lion Aslan, is killed by the White Witch. His lifeless body lies on a stone table as Lucy and Susan Pevensie weep over the loss. Then the sun rises, the ground shakes, the stone table splits, and to the surprise of all Narnia, Aslan returns. Death gives way to life. That’s why we’re here today isn’t it? Each year, this day is set aside to remember the resurrection of Jesus. We know the story well, but imagine for a moment that you were there as it was happening. Imagine that you had witnessed the unjust, inhumane act of fatal violence against someone in whom you had placed your hope. Imagine you couldn’t see the “end of the story”, and were facing all the confusion and grief that comes from the untimely death of someone you love. Then imagine it all changes in a moment. The one you believed to be dead calls you by name. The hopeless dark gives way to marvelous light. The despair over the crucifixion gives way to the surprise of his resurrection. This is the scene of today’s message. Death gives way to life. The resurrection of Jesus is the hope of all mankind. The color and fragrance of spring serve to remind us. The wonder of Aslan’s return serves to inspire us, and the scripture’s account of the event itself invites us to experience the life that only Jesus himself can give.

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Surprised by Hope: Broken and Beautiful

• June 13th, 2011

Surprised by Hope: Broken and Beautiful Luke 23: 25-43 We live in a culture that enjoys catching people at their worst. Just scan many of the magazines at the supermarket and you’ll find pictures of celebrities photographed at their worst physical or behavioral moments. The fact that Charlie Sheen’s nationwide tour continues to sell out is not an indication of entertainment quality. Rather, people are willing to pay top dollar to laugh while this talented actor melts down in real time. Gossip is attractive not because the news is good, but because we want to share the worst about someone else. Why do we enjoy celebrating the worst in others? What does that say about us? What if your life was defined by your worst moment? In Boston, all you have to do is say the words “Game 6”, or mention the name “Bill Buckner” and you’ll experience an emotional outburst that might endanger your existence. Bill Buckner’s 22 season baseball career is defined by one bad play from the 1986 World Series. Is there hope when our lives have been branded, labeled, and judged? If friends, enemies, our own self, and even religious people have pronounced us hopeless, does that mean God has given up as well? How far does one go before they are too far gone? This morning we visit the site of an execution. At this place we’ll witness how pride, power and cynicism bring out the worst possible human behavior. Against this backdrop we’ll discover what is found when the very heart of God is pressed, crushed and broken. Here hang two criminals. These two thieves were pronounced worthless, guilty, deserving of their punishment…hopeless. With them hangs Jesus.

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Surprised by Hope: Suffering and Sight

• June 13th, 2011

When I was in middle school I began to suffer from bad headaches. The pain was excruciating, and the experiences were embarrassing when they occurred at school. The frequency of the headaches became a cause for concern, so my pediatrician ordered an MRI. When we met with the physician to go over the results, I vividly remember him saying that he had good news and bad news. “The good news is that we found your brain”. It was a great joke, but horrible timing. I figured if the good news was a joke, the bad news must be really bad. “The bad news is that we see something on the brain that we need to take a closer look at”. This led to another MRI and another meeting. I held my breath and waited for the news. It turned out to be nothing more than a small bit of what the doctor called “extra tissue”, and was unrelated to the headaches. “Be thankful”, the doctor said, “I see a lot of tumors and wanted to make sure you didn’t have one.” The headaches were textbook migraines. I was given medication, instructions, a lollipop and sent home. I recall letting my youth group know the good news. Youth workers and friends said “thank God”, God was looking out for you”, “God has his hand on you.” That sure sounded good, but even at a young age it made me think about the other kids who would sit in the doctor’s office and receive bad news about a spot on their brain. Did that mean God wasn’t blessing them, that God wasn’t looking out for them, or that God didn’t have a hand on them? I felt guilty for being happy about my results when I remembered the doctor referring to how many tumors he saw in other kids. It was and still is for me a complicated issue. Thinking and talking about the suffering and pain in the world around us is difficult and complex. Suffering seems to be selective, it appears to be arbitrary. Why were my MRI results “good” and another kid’s “bad”? Why did my friends’ 10 month old die suddenly while tyrants and dictators live to bring years of slaughter and devastation on the world? Where is hope to be found in such an environment? John 9 – The issue of suffering becomes the central conversation for Jesus as he encounters a man who has been blind since birth. In restoring his sight, Jesus brings hope, healing and illumination to his disciples, the blind man, and to us as well.

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